Controllable?

How many of you always worry about things? Just anything that related to you? Well, just the same to me. Having heard and advised from and by some great people that worrying things that are beyond our control is just the waste of time and mental energy. But yet, it has become one of my bad habit.


Why am I typing this post anyway? Well, just to tell people not to worry? Yeah, that is pretty true.


Yes, I, myself was a pessimist. Always started thinking about a particular thing with negative thoughts. Believe it or not, I just found out that "negative" people always end up breaking their chains of friends. Why? Because no one likes to be negative or have bad emotional due to the fact that life is hard and stressful. Of course "negative" people won't realise. Until one day when he/she regained conscious about the truth, his/her life will change forever.


I became sociable after realising it. I remember when I was in secondary school, I was always the one without patient and easily upset over small matters.  Until form 5, I began to changed my attitude towards things and the way my mind think. After that, things became so easy. Honestly, we were all born with 90% things (not to mention the unlucky ones) that we need. e.g necessities.. etc. ..and where is the rest of the 10%? My dear friend, you need to work hard to achive it. The word "easy" i mentioned before this didn't meant that you don't need to do anything about it. So, move your butts and work it out. =)


Look at a bigger picture, pessimists are always blinded by things behind their initial thoughts, and they always make it serious. I didn't meant that being serious is a bad thing, but you must know why you're doing it seriously.  Who knows things will ended up better or even greater than you've ever thought of. Moreover, earth is just a small dust in the Universe. So, take it easy and relax. Things aren't so serious until you know the true consiquences.

Therefore, what I want to say is, know what is within your control and what is not. Stop thinking about things that you're impossible to change. Save your time and mental energy for those things that you are able achieve. =)